I just want to say that I agree with my friend Joan in her comment last night. I really should have talked about closeness, being soul mates - being caring to one another and intimacy - none of those really need sex! Coz one day me and John might not be able to do that - one day a lot of couple cant do that - but its really how close you can be with one another and trusting one and other and being there for each other. Im glad Joan you reminded me of that. But sex is good though hee hee - only Im lucky enough to still have that part of our relationship!
The friend I talked about last night has no closeness at all in her marraige - she would love her husband to hold her hand, brush her face - tell her he loves her - it would mean more than sex - sex is just sex isnt it - making love is different. Oh blimey Ive started myself going on now so I will stop!! hee hee
Im gonna have some chocolate!